Back to Reality :)

We had a great weekend last weekend... On Friday, Martin took off of work and we went to Jim's for breakfast (awesome pancake & breakfast taco!). Then, we went to Babies R Us and registered for stuff for our little girl. The rest of the day we just took it easy. On Saturday, we got up and went with a group from church to Krause Springs, a natural spring outside of Austin, where we ate a picnic lunch, lounged in the water, hung out, and watched people do tricks on the rope swing. Saturday night, we went and saw The Hulk - and I actually enjoyed it. Sunday morning we got up and went to San Antonio to visit with Martin's family. His sister, brother-in-law and their two kids were at his parents house, so it was a really nice chance to visit with them. We came back to Austin and went straight to get the kids.

They had a blast in Turks and Caicos. They came back very sunburned and peeling, so that night when I was putting lotion on Jake's face, I barely brushed his ear and he yelped! Both kids had swimmer's ear infections and couldn't go to camp on Monday because 1) they couldn't swim and it was a swim day and 2) they needed to go to the Dr. to get the antibiotic ear drops. I was pretty frustrated at losing a day of work, but we hung out and had a good time. I was asleep before 9, which has pretty much held true most of the week. It got me thinking...

What a difference a week makes. This will be an unintentional birth control argument for some, but last week when they were gone, I worked about 10 hours a day, took roughly 3-4 hours/day for a date night or girls night out, and slept about 8 hours a day. I didn't cook, didn't really clean or do much else. This week, I am taking about 3 hours a day - not for a relaxing night out but to run errands, go to the grocery store, pick up kids from camp, etc. I spend another 2 1/2 hours a day on my feet getting the kids ready and out the door, making dinner, doing dishes and laundry and cleaning/picking up. A couple of hours go to hanging out with the kids - getting them ready for bed, reading, playing ball, riding scooters, playing games, etc. I sleep about 1 1/2 hours more/night because of the extra physical and emotional energy I'm spending, which leaves me about 7 hours/day to work - on a good day... HA! I love my life but I absolutely need to limit my work time to 5-6 hours/day. Unfortunately right now, I need to work 40 hours/week for the next six weeks in order to finish this project I've been working on by our deadline of August 1st. Oh well, I've faced crunch times before and I have no one to blame but myself. If I'd worked a few more hours each week up to this point (I've been working on this project for almost six months), I wouldn't be in this boat.

Even with my time issues, I like summer fun with the kids and am not going to give that up. Tonight, Sydney has a sleepover with her friend Bria, and Spencer is staying over at our house. Tomorrow night, Sydney goes to a Camp Rock Premier party - Disney's new movie that comes out on t.v. - at a friend's house, and we're going to have a house full of 8-year-old boys here to play, make pizzas, and watch the movie. Fun!

Our Last Kid-Free Week...

We're nearing the end of our last kid-free week at home for who knows how many years :). We'll have others, but they will be much harder to plan and we surely won't go to the trouble unless we're going on a special vacation with just the two of us. Unfortunately we didn't have the option of taking a vacation since we had the time off for the wedding and the wonderful honeymoon. Can't complain about that... We are both taking tomorrow to play (not sure of our plans), but we've made the most of our week.
Last weekend, Martin arranged for a massage for me at a swanky salon downtown - it was VERY nice. Then, we ate dinner at Castle Hill (one of our favorite Austin restaurants). Finally, we went to see Sex in the City, which we both really enjoyed and would recommend to anyone who hasn't seen it. This week, we went to Bellagio for dinner on Monday. On Tuesday, Martin did all kinds of honey-do's while I went to dinner and a movie with girlfriends - he mowed the lawn, edged, changed light bulbs, etc. - what a man!! On Wednesday, we headed downtown and ate at Austin Java. Then, we walked over to Zilker to check out Blues on the Green. It wasn't our kind of music and none of the friends we invited last minute could come, so we didn't hang out long, but it was a nice walk and good people watching - hee hee. Tonight, we're off to a neighborhood Mexican restaurant and then we'll see what the rest of the weekend holds. On Sunday we're going to San Antonio for lunch and a quick father's day celebration with Martin's parents and then back to get the kiddos.

It's a Girl!

We had our ultrasound yesterday and saw a perfect little baby girl! The kids are excited - Sydney maybe slightly more than Jake at the thought of having a baby sister :). My Mom was thrilled to be there with us again.

We saw amazing detail of the inside of the brain and the heart. In the heart we could see the four chambers and the two valves letting blood through with each beat. We saw two little hands and two little feet, a well-formed upper lip (no cleft pallet), the stomach, kidneys, spinal cord, etc. Everything looks great and, based on this ultrasound, the Dr. reduced our odds of a Downs baby from 1 in 260 to 1 in 390. We weren't really worried about that, but it was nice to hear.

The due date based on my last period they report as October 20th, and the due date based on the measurements they took yesterday was October 23rd - so they said the due date will remain the 20th. The good thing about that is it means the baby is actually three days smaller than the norm - so maybe I won't have another 9+ pound baby!!! That will be nice, I think, although there was some comfort in handling a newborn who came out the size of many 3-month-olds! Jake was 9 lbs., 5 ounces and Sydney was 9 lbs., 4 ounces. I still think I'll play it safe an skip buying the newborn sizes in clothes, but we'll see if that turns out to be wise.

A couple of the sonogram pictures are below. I left one out with a front view of the skull where you see the eye and nose sockets and it looks like an alien, and Martin veto'ed posting the one with the private parts :). He's already looking out for his little girl!!

a cute little baby foot

and a profile shot

We are pretty much finished with any kind of tests or checks, except for regular check-ups with our ob-gyn that I described in a previous post - weight, blood pressure & urine checks plus listening to the heartbeat and checking on the size of the baby by measuring my tummy. We go monthly for another couple of months, I believe, then every couple of weeks until the last month when we go weekly. In the next couple of months I will complete a routine glucose screening for gestational diabetes and get a shot of rhogam since I am Rh-. Hopefully that will be the extent of our excitement in this pregnancy! We'll keep you posted...

Random Update

We've had a busy couple of weeks. Martin had to do a phone system installation out in Taylor which meant he didn't have to travel but was working from very early in the morning to late at night many work days in the last two weeks. The kids hardly saw him and I saw him slightly more given that several nights I was asleep by 9 and he wasn't home yet. We missed him!!

The kids had their last day of school yesterday - complete with junk food celebrations, movies in the classroom, and a picnic in the park involving a reptile presentation including lots of snakes and other creepy critters. Unfortunately, I didn't take the camera but a good time was had by all.

Tuesday of this week, we went to the Dr. again just for our monthly check. These visits are quick for us and we've never had any issues. They take blood pressure and then get a weight and urine sample - which they check for protein or sugar, I believe, which could indicate issues including gestational diabetes. Then, the Dr. comes in and uses a doppler device to listen to the heartbeat and checks for size and proper growth of the uterus and baby. We heard a strong heartbeat and the Dr. observed LOTS of movement and said both were good signs. I've gained more weight than I'd prefer, but I've lost it before and I'll lose it again...

We scheduled the sonogram for this coming Friday at 8AM and will again take the kids and my Mom. The results of our first sonogram and genetic screening from a couple of months ago showed our chances of having a baby with Downs Syndrome to be 1 in 260. The official cut-off that our lab gave for it being a "positive" screen (not what you want) is 1 in 250, so we were just outside that range. I googled and found sites that listed the cut-off as 1 in 270 and I worried for a day or two, but ultimately decided that we saw enough indicators of a healthy baby that we just weren't going to focus on the possibility of an issue. We decided not to do any further testing (amnio or CVS test) that carries a risk to the baby of between a 1 in 200 or 1 in 300 chance of miscarriage. Our Dr. (whom I respect and trust immensely) is very matter-of-fact and told us that any major issues will be revealed by this upcoming sonogram. Best of all, we get to confirm the sex so we can get serious about naming the baby, registering for a shower, and preparing the nursery - FUN!

Nuts!

Yesterday we went to Sydney's play called "Nuts!" It is strategically planned immediately following their schools PTA meeting's which slightly bumps up attendance. Sydney was so excited about the play. She was talking about it for days and when she got home from school that day she was asking when the play was going to start. It was only 4 hours before.... :)


Their school is right in our neighborhood so we walked. Well, Courtney (our new baby to be) and I walked, while the kiddos skateboarded and scootered. When we got there Sydney reminded us that we were not allowed in the music room where they prepared (I snuck in and snapped a picture anyway).


The kids seem to have a lot of fun doing the plays, Jake's was earlier this year. Courtney helped put the costumes together for this one. She colored about a thousand squirrel faces. It was all very cute. Afterwards I took a picture of Sydney with two of her friends. Sydney was a walnut, I think Arushi (to syd's left) was a squirrel and Brooke (to Syd's right) was a hula nut. Okay, I know that's not a real nut but I couldn't think of what she actually was.

Belly Pictures

We haven't been great about taking pictures of my growing belly, but here are a couple. Right now, we're 17 weeks pregnant. Today she was kicking over and over and I put Syd's hand on my tummy and asked her if she felt the roughly 6 kicks about 30 seconds apart and she didn't!! My hand was right on top of hers and I can't imagine how she didn't feel them, but maybe next time. Martin has been feeling the baby move for about a month now, which has been fun for both of us.

belly picture at the end of March around the time of Martin's Birthday

And another about a week into May

Mother's Day Weekend

We had a great weekend. Friday night we drove to San Antonio and went to Incredible Pizza with Martin's family - his Mom, Dad, sisters Jacqueline & Virginia, brothers-in-law (?) Ryan & Jonathan, niece Mia, and nephew Reid. It was equal parts fun and chaos with a little time to visit.

me, Martin's Mom, Emily, and sister, Jacqueline

Martin's Dad, Andy and baby Reid, Jacqueline & Ryan's little one

The kids came home with lots of goodies and so excited they were up until after 11:00 - which we just don't do. Because... the next morning they were up by 7:15. They still wake up early no matter how late they go to bed. But, that gave us a good start on the day. Martin's Mom made a great breakfast and we still had time to pet the baby goats and horse before we left for Austin.

Jake with a cute baby goat

Andy, Sydney, Jake & Lucky the horse

We made the last 1/2 of Sydney's soccer game and then went to her end-of-season swim party. The kids had a blast while the parent visited and worked to stay cool - it was a VERY hot day on Saturday.

After the party, the kids went to their Dad's house for the night - the original idea was for them to spend time with him, but they ended up spending the evening with the sitter, oh well... It gave us a chance for a kid-free dinner out, which we're trying to take full advantage of before those easy kid free nights go away. We had a nice dinner date after I took a long afternoon nap and Martin did some shopping and chores - he's a great husband!!

On Sunday, we got the kids back early and went to church, then to lunch at Pappadeux's before spending the afternoon at Mom's house with Uncle Jeff. Mom got out and played soccer with us - it was great! She's an amazing woman.

We were all tired, so we came home and had a movie and popcorn night. Which meant that the kids and I went straight into the big bed and turned on the movie, Martin made us popcorn, and I pretty promptly fell asleep and took another three hour nap. This growing a baby thing is harder work than I remembered I guess :).